Avidhava Navami – September 30th 2021

This Thursday September 30th 2021 is Avidhava Navami I was told by my Brother and Father. I had never ever heard of this special day. Found out from both of them that for women who are Mutaides and leave this world before their Husbands, and while husbands are still alive this special day is celebrated during Paksha Masa.

The word Avidhava means one who is not a widow or sumangali. According to our scriptures, Avidhava Navami is to be observed till the husband of the sumangali is alive.

I felt a deep pain listening to this, since it is now happening to our mother.

For those of you who have lost your Mothers, this is the day to give Bhagina for married women in the name of your mothers. Many of you may have lost your Sisters, Aunts, grandmothers and if their husbands are still alive is when this is celebrated. So, take a moment to donate on this day.

Let’s take the time to remember them, pray for them and seek blessings from them.

4 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Prahllada M.R on September 29, 2021 at 3:11 am

    With due respects to you Ma’m, I beg to differ with the notion ‘According to our scriptures, Avidhava Navami is to be observed till the husband of the sumangali is alive’. I sincerely request you to go through the exhaustive writeup by Shri Vishnudasa Nagendracharya w.r.t Avidhava Navami with the link provided below.
    http://vishwanandini.com/fullarticle.php?serialnumber=VNA141

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    • Posted by meeraghu on September 29, 2021 at 11:56 am

      Prahllada Avare. It is confusing when we receive so many messages which contradict each other. See this one I received just today.
      Avidhava Navami ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ

      ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ – ಪತಿ ಜೀವಂತ ಇದ್ದು ಪತ್ನಿ ಮೃತಳಾಗಿದ್ದಾಗ ಪಿತೃ ಪಕ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಭಾದ್ರಪದ ಮಾಸ ಕೃಷ್ಣ ಪಕ್ಷ ನವಮಿಯಂದು ಮಾಡತಕ್ಕ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ.

      ಈ ದಿನ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧದಲ್ಲಿ ಮೂರು ಪಿಂಡಗಳನ್ನು ಇಡತಕ್ಕದ್ದು. ಇವರುಗಳಿಗೆ ಪಿಂಡ ಇಡತಕ್ಕದ್ದು. – ತಾಯಿ , ತಾಯಿಯ ಅತ್ತೆ (ಅಜ್ಜಿ), ಅಜ್ಜಿಯ ಅತ್ತೆ (ಮುತ್ತಜ್ಜಿ) – ಮಾತರಂ, ಪಿತಾಮಹೀಂ, ಪ್ರಪಿತಾಮಹೀಂ.

      ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ – ತಾಯಿ ಸತ್ತ ನಂತರ ತಂದೆ ಸತ್ತರೆ ತಾಯಿಗೆ ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ ಆಚರಿಸಬೇಕೆ ?
      ಉತ್ತರ – ತಂದೆ ಸತ್ತ ನಂತರ ತಾಯಿಗೂ ಪಕ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಪಿಂಡಪ್ರದಾನ ಇರುವುದರಿಂದ ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ ಬೇಕಿಲ್ಲ ಎಂಬ ಸಂಪ್ರದಾಯ ಇದೆ.

      ಮತ್ತು – ಕೆಲವರು ತಾಯಿ ಮುತ್ತೈದೆಯಾಗಿ ಸತ್ತಿರುವುದರಿಂದ ತಂದೆ ಸತ್ತ ಮೇಲೂ ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ ಮಾಡಬೇಕು ಎಂಬ ಸಂಪ್ರದಾಯ ಕೆಲವರಲ್ಲಿದೆ.

      ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ – ತಾಯಿ ಮುತ್ತೈದೆಯಾಗಿ ಆಕಸ್ಮಿಕ ಸಾವು , ಆತ್ಮಹತ್ಯೆ ಸಾವಾಗಿದ್ದರೆ, ಅಥವಾ ಸಹಗಮನ ಮಾಡಿ ಸತ್ತರೆ ಅವರಿಗೆ ಅವಿಧಾನವಮಿ ಮಾಡಬೇಕೆ ?

      ಉತ್ತರ : ಸಹಗಮನ ಮಾಡಿದ್ದರೆ, ಸ್ವಾಭಾವಿಕ ಸಾವಾಗಿದ್ದರೆ ಅವಿಧವಾನವಮಿ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ ಮಾಡಬೇಕು.
      ಆಕಸ್ಮಿಕ ಅಥವಾ ಆತ್ಮಹತ್ಯೆ ಸಾವಾಗಿದ್ದರೆ ಘಾತ ಚತುರ್ದಶಿ ದಿನದಂದು ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ ಮಾಡಬೇಕು. ಅವರಿಗೆ ಅವಿಧವಾನವಮಿ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ ಇಲ್ಲ.

      ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ : ತಂದೆ ನಿಧಾನವಾದ ನಂತರ ತಾಯಿಗೆ ಪಕ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಪಿಂಡಪ್ರದಾನ ಮಾಡಬೇಕಾ ?
      ಉತ್ತರ : ತಂದೆ ನಿಧನವಾದ ನಂತರ ತಾಯಿಗೆ ಪಕ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಪಿಂಡಪ್ರದಾನ ಮಾಡಬೇಕು.

      ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ : ತಾಯಿಗಾಗಿ ಮಾಡುವ ಅವಿಧವಾ ನವಮಿ ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧದಲ್ಲಿ ಏನು ಮಾಡಬೇಕು ?
      ಉತ್ತರ : ಶ್ರಾದ್ಧ ನಂತರ ಮುತ್ತೈದೆಯನ್ನು ಆಹ್ವಾನಿಸಿ ಅವರಿಗೆ ಮೊರದ ಬಾಗಿನ, ಸೀರೆ ಬ್ಲೌಸ್ಪಿಸ್ ಯಥಾಶಕ್ತಿ ದಕ್ಷಿಣೆ ಸಹಿತ ಕೊಡಬೇಕು.

      Vidhava means Widow. “ Avidhava ” means not a Widow – Sumangali. Avidhava Navami in the context of Pitru Paksham is the day on which cermonies/rituals are to be performed for those Women (Mothers) who died as Sumangali.

      It should be performed by the son/s on the Navami tithi day during Pithru Paksha. Avidha Navami is followed by those who have lost their mothers and their father is alive. They have to do it on Bhadrapada Krishna Navami day. They have to invite Mutthaide – Brahmana Dampatigalu. Give them marada baagina (ಮರದ ಬಾಗಿನ) containing all saumangala items like haridra, kumkuma, coconut, rice, dalls, blouse peace, villedele, adike, dakshine, if possible sarry, blousepiece, etc..

      On this day, pinda pradhana to be done. Atleast tila tarpana to be done. Here during Avidhava navami, unlike paksha (wherein all the forefathers will be called), only his mother, mother’s in law and great grand mother will be called and pinda pradhana will be done.

      Narahari Sumadhwa
      Sumadhwa Seva

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  2. Posted by Shanthi Sethuraman on September 28, 2021 at 5:22 am

    Thanks for sharing it, for informing the special of Avidhava Navami and makinmg us to donate on this ay would bring us goood virtue.

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